I wanted to address that sometimes I unfollow people. We all do. Whether it's their blogs, their Twitter, Instagram, whatever. It happens.
Today I thought I'd explain a little about why I might have unfollowed some people. For the sake of time, I'm not including the obvious cases where I would unfollow someone. If I see you're quite mean, rude, have beliefs totally different to mine (offensive ones, not just a different belief system) - I'm obviously going to unfollow.
No, today isn't about that. This is about the nice guys, the swell pals. The 'why would you unfollow those people?' people.
If I've ever unfollowed you, and it wasn't for an obvious reason like you've been a bit of a dick, then I'd like to say sorry. But it definitely isn't personal.
A lot of the time, I will unfollow people if I feel we are totally unconnected, and it's probably my most common reason for unfollowing someone. By unconnected, I mean we never ever talk, I don't read your blog (
that doesn't mean it's not great. Perhaps it's not my thing, or I never really checked it out. Bear in mind it's hard to keep up with thousands online.) Unconnected to me would mean we never interact and never have, we don't seem to have similar thoughts, hobbies, beliefs. Maybe I haven't even seen you talk to 'similar' friends. Basically there is just nothing connecting us except when I visit your profile it says 'following'.
Then yes, I will probably unfollow if I realise this. And I really don't want that to hurt your feelings, because I would totally understand if you did the same. It's not a big deal to me, but I know to some people it is. And maybe one day we will start interacting, and I will follow back again. That's cool too. But it's never personal.